First real true love?

who should i consider my first real true love?....the first guy that i met was really nice and sweet and cute ...and i liked him but then as time goes by i just don't like him anymore...i don't know why i guess he's not my real type...but i felt sorry for him and thought about him for about a year(not every single day...it was once in a while until i completely almost forgot him)...whenever he calls me, i don't feel like talking to him so i just listen and said nothing...my parents told me not to date and i actually told him i don't want to date him.......then there's the second guy who makes me smile, laugh and playful... everytime i think about him, it makes me happy....when i talk on the phone, all that i want to say went away and i felt speechless ...i think i was hypnotize by his words..idk...and i felt the urge to disobey my parents and date him..........so who's my first true love?....of course i'm asking cause love can mean lots of things...and i'm just confused with "love"