Marrying another religion.........?

i am a muslim female. all my life it has been engraved in my head to marry another muslim guy. so i did. now i am divorced bec of his mental and verbal abuse ( has to do with his low self esteem not the religion). i love my religion and practice it. but looking back, i find that every muslim guy has hurt me, disrespected me, or lead me on in order to get his needs met. i really wanted to marry a muslim. it seems every muslim i meet is muslim by name only, but doesnt really practice it. they drink, party, gamble, do drugs. but i just met a guy who is absolutely wonderful. pure chivalry. tends to my every whim. i feel like cinderella when i am with him. but he is not muslim. though his behavior is as what a true muslim should be. he believes in God, but does not feel he is religious, and said if we ever got married, he would allow me to raise the kids muslim, as long as they turned out to be good kids. i am very apprehensive about this. but again, he treats me so well, better than any muslim guy i have ever met. should i do it?