Thursday, April 26, 2012

Was my drunken statement really that bad?

A few nights ago, I was at my bf's place and a few of his friends came over. I wanted my bf's attention so I started tugging on his shorts, and snapping his waistband. We went to his room and he said "I know exactly what you were doing. You were teasing me in front of my friends because you know that one guy likes you." I was like "what are you talking about? who?" he was like "you know." (he thinks one of his friends that was there likes me because of something that happened about a month ago.) anyway, we went out to the liquor store and bought some alcohol. so... i got drunk and told my bf "someone told me that even when you're drunk, you're in complete control of your actions and can't use it as an excuse for cheating." he said u didn't have control when drunk so i said "yes, u do, because if i didn't have control, i'd be all over your friends right now, but i'm not, therefore i'm in control." he got so mad and went on about how that meant i WANTED to be all over his friends, but i was just controlling myself, and that i wanted them more than him. i don't think it helped that he already thinks his friend likes me. i tried to explain to him that he took my statement the wrong way, but was still really upset and he after a while he said he believed me and it was ok, but i know he didn't mean it. i told him that i didn't mean that i wanted his friends, and my statement has nothing to do with desire. he disagreed. do you think he overreacted? what do you think of the way he reacted?

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