For First Mothers: Would this have effected your decision?

YUCK!!! I would not want my child to be fed by someone else. That to me is just gross and wrong! Why cant the person bottle feed formula?! These days the two are about the same. milk isnt always better for the child. YUCK!!! That just to me is wrong! I also feel that this should be discussed during the adoption and both families should have to agree about what to feed the baby!